my husband and i were at church last weekend and the worship pastors wife asked us what our goals were in life and what we wanted to do. my husband immediately said “well we definitely want to have kids!” and my heart just broke.

for reference he was never really “on board”. like he wanted to have a baby but he wanted our financial and living situations to be better first so this was very shocking for me to hear.

I have PCOS and we’ve been trying for about 7 months now with no luck. i just feel like I can’t give him what we both so desperately want.

how do you guys deal with this? it freaking sucks and we haven’t even been trying that long.