I have been trying to get pregnant now for a bit .... I have been a year married and and we have been trying just recently. And I pray each time that I will get pregnant soon, my husband and I have been so happy just talking how it would be to have one already. Also how our life's would change just having one but just the idea of one is incredible. When I was 15 I had a surgery because my lady business needed reconstruction in order for me to even have sex. I only found out because my period was not coming but I was getting cramps so I told my parents and they told me I need to get surgery for reconstruction. So that when ever I planed to have sex or to have a baby when I got older I could be able to have one. But everytime I think back to that and we try for a baby now and nothing happens I feel like I'm failing. This is one thing I've always dreamed of my whole life. Now I'm with my amazing husband and we both want one ... I try to stay positive, and I keep telling myself god will give me one when he thinks it's time for one. Im fine now with the lady business but I need tips on how to consive a baby to correct what I'm doing or just try different things that has helped other people. Please help and please send your prayers. Thanks.