Never cum while having sex with a guy or a girl but I can while I masterbate myself, Is that normal?

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So I’m 16 and I’ve been with around 10 guys and a few girls and NO ONE has ever been able to make me cum! But when I’m going down on myself, I can within 20 mins. So weird idk what to do. The sex feels good but they always finish and I don’t and I always fake it 🥴

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The only person I’ve ever cum with is my husband and it’s because we’ve had sex (and foreplay) hundreds of times and he’s slowly learned exactly what makes me tick (from me telling him and showing him), plus I can fully relax with him. Even with him it took a couple years for me to really let go and be able to cum on a regular basis with him. For some of us, it’s hard to cum without our partner being very familiar with us and our body

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Damn I’m 20 and only been with one guy. People really enjoying their lives out there.

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Show you partner how you masturbate. Maybe that would help. It’s really all mental and is possible.

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I've only had 1 guy be able to make me cum. I really think you need to find the right person.

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From now on....don’t fake an orgasm anymore! If you don’t orgasm then it’s okay. If the person you are sleeping with is actually interested in making you orgasm he/she will try to find a way to make it happen. Than again you might not as much as they try 🤷🏻‍♀️Not every girl can orgasm from sex or from someone else in general. Unfortunately, I’ve never been able to orgasm from a guy. Only on my own with a vibrator.

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I’m lucky to have a bf who can last for l i t e r a l hours! In the beginning I didn’t cum either but I guided him to what feels good on me (both when he’s going down and with his fingers) and now he has me cum at least 3 times each time XD. use your words to guide your partner. It’s the only way they’ll learn

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I have slept with 6 people and only 2 of them have been able to make me orgasm. I have found that it depends on the level of comfort I have with the person. If I'm too in my head it isn't going to happen. It also doesn't happen the first time I'm with a new partner. Just try to relax and enjoy it. It's not always about the finale.

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I think its deep down insecurities... i realized that it took me a while to... mostly because i was too worried about it taking too long. Or that i was taking too long

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Try to be honest with your partners about it. It is normal and it takes time to find the groove so it may be easier trying with one person until it clicks. I had a boyfriend who could not finish during sex or anything I did; he could only finish while masturbating.

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Well it can be your into a certain thing when masturbating and during sex you’re not focused on feeling good but focused on if you can cum or not. You’re still young so try and find things that you like by touching yourself that others can do to you and it might help :) good luck and remember to use protection

Never cum while having sex with a guy or a girl but I can while I masterbate myself, Is that normal?

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