TTC if your 40+ and people are shocked!

Yasemin • Married to wonderful hubby! Have two gorgeous girls 16 and 9. Trying for number 3.
In so tired of people being mean and sarcastic when I tell them that I'm TTC #3. They make rude comments like " are you sure it's safe because of your age?" " why would u wanna go through sleepless nights and diaper changing again"? I'm so tired of it! Why can't people just support my decision and be happy for me? I'm healthy I don't look my age and I want another one. That's nobody's business but me and my husbands. My family and friends are driving me insane I don't know what to do anymore. The pressure of conceiving is already causing me enough stress I don't need this extra bullshit. Anyone else going through this? Sorry to rant but I needed to get it out. You guys are all I have right now for support. By the way I'm 41 yo.