Should I have another or just foster/adopt??

Tri-goddess

Should I be concerned about having another baby?? I have IC (insufficient/incompetent cervix) and lost my beautiful twin girls at 24wks, almost two years ago. Three months later I conceived my sweet little rainbow girl who is almost 1yr old. The whole time during this pregnancy I was depressed and scared that I would lose her too and I almost did. Each week (starting at 21wks) my cervix was shortening. The wonderful specialists who basically saved my baby recommended steroid shots every 4 weeks just in case she came early. I also had the suppository progesterone(that didn’t help AT ALL). Nothing was working and as I was preparing myself to say goodbye to another sweet girl, my doctor put me on strict bed rest for the remainder of my pregnancy (4 months of torture, since I hate asking for help and am an independent woman💁🏽‍♀️) Just shy of 36wks I went into labor on what could possibly be my first official Mother’s Day. After being checked I was 2cm dilated completely effaced. I immediately get steroid shots and medication to stop labor(don’t remember what it was called) and an hour later it stopped. Fast forward 4wks. The day I turn 40wks I get induced due to preeclampsia and my beautiful healthy rainbow entered this world🙌🏽 I feel lucky enough to have gotten through one successful pregnancy but I want more children. I’ve always wanted a big family but I just don’t know if my body can do it. What do you think?

Comment 👍🏽 for yes, 👎🏽 for no if you want to keep it short

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