Still confused...

I filed divorce papers but have been secretly seeing another guy. I'm not 100% sure what this guy wants. He has asked what my plans are; yet he is very quiet. He is open that he cares but he says the word 'love' scares him. I just want to know how he feels. His whole family knows about me. We arent only 'f*ck buddies'. We watch movies and communicate more so then not; however I am scared and I have poured my whole heart out to him but he says he doesnt remember what was said. I'm at loss of what to do. I really care and like him more than I should....

Edit: pouring my heart out as in how I feel about him personally not sexually. He is an amazing person. All in all. Either way I should of not married the guy I am currently with. Update will be later. 😊 thank you all.