Should I tell him we’re out?

I don’t want to let my SO down.

I had my AF 4/30- 5/4.

Positive OPK on May 6 & 7th which I probably ovulated May 8th or 9th.

At 6DPO I had cramping.

At 9DPO spotting light pink and brown.

10DPO bleeding bright red.

11DPO medium bleeding in the morning and stopped

12DPO nothing but a BFN!

Today I am 13 DPO no bleeding and AF is due on 5/23.

Am I out? Should I just test before I’m supposed to miss AF?