How do you ease the fear of it happening again?

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Had my first pregnancy and miscarriage January 30th. Had my second pregnancy and second miscarriage may 20th. We are now trying again. First miscarriage was at 6 weeks second was at 8 weeks. How do you ease the fear it will happen again?

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I've also had 2 miscarriages and I'm currently waiting for my cycle to return so I can try again. I'm scared to death. I know the miscarriages weren't my fault but I'm so scared to fail another baby. It's the scariest feeling ever and I don't think we will ever get over it until we deliver a healthy baby. I'm sorry that you are feeling the same way and I'm so sorry you've had to experience 2 losses also.

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I don't think the fear will ever completely go away. I do know that next time we are pregnant, I am going to stay away from the apps and reading until we are further along. I just about drove myself crazy and I honestly think that it made things worse for me.

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The fear never really goes away. I had a miscarriage November 2014 and had another June 2015. I got married August 14,2015 and found out I was pregnant August 16. I've been so paranoid every day. It doesn't get easier you just try to deal with it. My sleep has gotten horrible. I sleep maybe 3 hrs or 4 hrs a night. And right now I have no symptoms and my next appt isn't till next week. My dr put me on progesterone suppositories until I am 12weeks. But even then I'm scared cause my last miscarriage I was almost 15 weeks. I wish you all the baby dust. Try not to beat yourself up but trust me I know it's easier said then done.

How do you ease the fear of it happening again?

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