Does anyone deeply hate their siblings?

I have so unlucky as to grow up with a truly evil sister with a 6 year difference. I am very emotional and I take things very seriously and my sister knows this. My sister is now turning 11 and she is a nightmare to live with. She lies constantly and comes in my room and breaks things, has thrown 2 of my phones and my PS4 in the bathtub. Finds it funny to finds sticks and leaves and put them in my bed. She also colours and rips my homework.

My parents just say that I just push her to the edge until she does these things and that I need to not lose my temper so easily but I don’t know what to do when she is emotional and physically bullying me. I am 6 years older than her and stronger than her but i get a so told off when I fight back so I don’t.

How do I stop her from being a crap person cause it’s actually making me crazy.