swimming pool safety????? girl talk

So my family has never taken me swiming and ive been in a pool twice in my life both times as a little kid.

My boyfriend was talking about taking me but im a bit worried about all those chemicals up in my goods 😬

Any tips or things i should know?

Beyond showering after and not sitting inna wet bathing suit im clueless!

If i get excited or something will it hurt me??? Were not about to have sex in the pool but getting excited happens randomly we know this!

I never even take baths bc we dont have a bathtub. I did when i was little but not since i was like nine.

Help a girl out? Are my lady bits safe?!?!?!?