Wanna feel like a women/loving wife again!

My Little Man is a month old. I love him with all my heart and DH is thrilled with being a second-time father. But breastfeeding has been daunting and exhausting. There were days I could not even get out for a 5 min walk. Recovery is going fine but I desperately need to feel like a women again and mostly feel like a real wife to my hubby. He is super supportive and caring but I am wondering if we will ever be able to be lovers again! How you ladies deal with the transition from wife to mommy without throwing your relationship out the window?