How do I get over my boyfriends sexual past?

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He had sex before (for the first time) with his ex and him and his ex and him had a bad break up. He says he got over her in like a month but I don’t see how that’s possible. We knew each other when they were dating but not super well. I’m a virgin and he isn’t pressuring me in any way but I just get really sad when I think about his past. How could I get over this? I’ve tried talking to him but he just gets mad. (He also says that he was being made fun of for being a virgin at the time and he was put in a bad position but I can’t help but think “why didn’t he try to get out of it?”)

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I don’t want to be rude but as you get older it’s rare you’re going to be with someone  who hasn’t been with anyone else. You just have to accept it and get over it. They aren’t together anymore for a reason.

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Perhaps he wanted to get out of it but didn’t know how. Peer pressure can be intense. Kudos to you for being a strong, independent thinker. Some people just take longer to learn how to honor themselves and live with such a level of integrity. He has some personal growth to work on before he’ll be really be ready for a relationship. And if he’s getting mad at you for asking questions, don’t ignore it like you did something wrong. Don’t sleep with him until (and if) he proves himself worthy of that kind of future.

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I feel like you need to let this go. I'm not sure what his sexual past has anything to do with your relationship with him. Everyone has a past and no one likes to have it used against them, especially if it's something he wishes he could take back. If this is something you can not deal with then maybe you need to reconsider the relationship and find someone who has no sexual history.

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Honey what he did before you guys started dating is none of your business and you have no real reason or right to be upset about it. There’s nothing he can do to change it so I don’t blame him for getting upset when you keep bringing it up. Let it go or move on from him

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Ughhhh omg girl same its so annoying to think about but just realise your dating him now and i hope you can try and move past it. It probably f*cks with your head sometimes, i can relate. I hope you'll be okay tho!💕

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With time. I’ve been w my bf for 4 years now, first 2 years I couldn’t seem to let it go or I’d catch it bugging me from time to time Bc they were each other’s firsts. But now that I know where I stand w my bf idc about his past.

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Well there is nothing you can do but understand that you won't be put under pressure for what you do with your body, And if he is with you, it is because he genuinely likes you. It's hard to get over people, but once you find someone better than you could care less about your ex.

How do I get over my boyfriends sexual past?

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