Does this count as rape?

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I was dating this guy for almost a year and it seemed like all he wanted to do whenever we were together was have sex. He pressured me into a lot of things I didn't want to do, such as anal and other stuff. One time in particular, he wanted to have sex but I didn't want to but I never told him no. If I didn't want to do it but never told him no, it can't count as rape or anything right? I had a friend telling me he raped me but if I never said anything it shouldn't count. I feel used from it and I just want to get more opinions to see if I should take action against him for rape or anything. We've been broken up for about 6 months now so I'm already out of that situation. 
Please no hate for this, I just wanted to hear others opinions on the situation. Thanks!
After note: thanks for everyone that has responded, it really cleared up the confusion in my head and I agree with the fact that it was not rape, my friend just made me paranoid about it. If I did not say no that is my fault bc he cannot read my mind. Hopefully I can put all of this behind me soon and thanks again for everyone helping!

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If you didn’t tell him know, how would he know to stop?
I’m talking about the one particular time you mentioned. 
He can’t read your mind and guess that you didn’t want to have sex. Unless you verbally told him “NO,” but he did it anyways, it’s not rape.
The other times that you felt pressured though, if you said no to him at any point, but he did it anyways, that is rape.
But the one time you mentioned where you didn’t tell him no, but you didn’t feel like it, that’s not rape.

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This is not rape. If you didn't tell him no, you're not in the mood, not feeling it, etc. then it's not rape. As far as he knew you're in a sexually active relationship and you didn't protest, so there was nothing wrong. If you're questioning it, then it's most likely not rape. Girls need to stop crying rape every time they have sex when they're "not in the mood", a little drunk, or sex that they regret. If the other person is not being forceful, If you didn't say no, if you went along with it, then it is 100% consensual.

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If you never said no, he didnt rape you. Not everybody has a keen sense for discomfort in others. Those kinds of accusations could ruin a persons life. So no, you cant say he raped you because he didnt

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How could it be rape if you never told him no or to stop?

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What about when a woman is raped and she freezes on the spot and can’t react. She didn’t say NO, I’m a little shocked that so many woman on here are saying if you didn’t actually say no its not rape?????? Wtaf.

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I think it counts as rape, but I don’t know what would happen if you tried to press charges. His lawyer would likely try to bank of the fact that you never said anything out loud. Unfortunately that’s how it typically works

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This is not rape. If you didn’t want to have sex with this person you should’ve said no. Regret does not equal rape. This is why it’s important to say no to sex you do not want to have. He cannot read your mind.

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It's not rape, you never asked him to stop or told him no.

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If you think it counts, and you felt pressured to the point where you couldn’t or were scared to say no, then yes. I won’t say that it isn’t because i wasn’t there and don’t know al of what happened but go without gut

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I would say it counts 🤷🏻‍♀️ no means no, no matter what the case may be. I’ve had similar things happen to me in a long term relationship but I don’t think the time or relationship should matter, what matters is that no.. means no.

Does this count as rape?

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