Phew! Okay! To start off, we have a 3 year old little girl and have been together 6 years! For the last month me and my husband have had baby fever so bad. I told him if we still have it when September comes around then we can actually try for another. My issue is, I’m literally terrified. I’m scared my first won’t adapt too well, she has attachment issues to me as it is. I’m scared of the whole “planning” part of another. I’m scared of the whole 9 months ride until the big day. But most importantly I’m scared of something happening to my relationship because kids can be a huge stress with couples who’ve been together a while. Should I just bite the bullet and do it?! I mean YOLO right?!😂 I don’t want my daughter to have me and her dad be a burden when we’re older. I also grew up with two other siblings and it was really fun but I just feel like it’s selfish to only have one😔 she really loves other kids and plays well with them even if she doesn’t know them. She’s always trying to communicate to them etc.. in stores when we pass. I just need advice😭 bite the bullet and do it? Wait? Don’t? My husband has a really good paying job to where we can easily afford another but ugh! It’s a huge life long commitment!😁