I dont think I wash my down there correctly😕🤦🏽‍♀️

This is horrifically embarrassing so please no judgement but I dont know if I'm washing my private area correctly. I use soap and water and do the rag like I do toilet paper when i wipe. Am i supposed to be spreading the lips open and washing or do i just continue to "wipe".. wow this is probably the stupidest thing anyone has ever posted on here🤦🏽‍♀️