i need help finding my true self.

max

please no judgement because i’m young and i really don’t know what i’m doing tbh. but anyways uhm how did you guys know you were bi or gay? because i’m not sure if it’s just me being horny or me genuinely liking girls as well as guys. when i think about dating a girl and when i think about dating a guy they are two different scenarios. i’m not sure how to explain it with words but anything to help me figure out what is going on would be helpful. thanks xoxo