To spoil or not to spoil RANT

I am fed up of all the different opinions I get. Yes, everyday I sleep skin to skin with my sweet baby boy who falls asleep at the breast after the early morning feed. Yes, he does sleep the night in his crib otherwise and most often than not he naps in our arms. And yes, I plan on keeping our bonding routine going. He will grow out of it soon enough and I want to cherish every moment with my rainbow baby. First doc says baby is spoiled, second says you can't spoil a baby that young. I am at that point where I will simply do what my mom instincts tell me to so baby gets all the love we can give him. Period. He is a human being, not a statistic!