But he isn't. Its so frustrating. Its not that I dont understand his point of view. We want to own a house and be somewhat set financially. We already have two kids. I've made binders with wedding articles and 4 hypothetical wedding themes of where, what decorations, honeymoon destinations, and the whole shebang. Getting this financial shit is seriously taking forever and I'm so tired of waiting. We've been engaged for some time already. Seeing all these woman on here posting that they found their dress and friends posting all their wedding pictures just makes my heart ache. I just want to be married to my man already but he just isn't ready.... he keeps saying it'll happen but fucking when dude -.-