Now, I know this sounds crazy. I know it does!

It’s not that I don’t trust him...

But before me, my boyfriend had a really serious relationship where they moved in together. And to me it seems like they had more in common.... whereas me, I’ve dated before, but haven’t really been in a serious relationship before him. We are now living together, which is a first for me- but he’s done it before.

They ended really badly and he’d blocked her. But now he’s unblocked her on Facebook and I’m worried about him reaching out and reconciling.

He hasn’t talked to me about unblocking her, but old photos have reappeared on his page, which is what happens.

I know my own mental health isn’t great at the moment, and my anxiety is really bad.

I’m trying to resist the temptation, I haven’t checked his phone and I don’t want to. But I don’t want to seem really petty by bringing this up.

But I know my anxiety is now affecting my relationship