Is he cheating?

Question

I found this on my hubby phone and I questioned him.(hes the blue convo)
He says shes a coworker and shes cool and I have nothing to worry about.
Questions I asked him
1. Why u have her number? She been going thur some things n he just wanna check up on her
2. Why she asking u where u live? I dont remember 
3. What dont she know cuz it look like u deleted the pervious text? I don’t remember 
4. Why the FUCK! U calling her my dear? He didnt give answer he starts defending himself by asking y im going thur his phone
Im so over n done wit this shit wit him. I dont no if i shud stay or go. I Believe hes cheating n i dont want to forgive n forget again cuz hes gonna think its okay for him to do it again
I dnt have a job or my own money n we have 2 kids and 1 on the way. 
I need to leave but have no where to go. Im not being abused just cheated on

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That text thread doesn’t really say anything to convince me he is cheating, nor does it make me think he isn’t.  The only thing I’d think is suspicious is the fact that previous messages have been deleted, but other than that there’s not much to go on in my opinion.

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I think you're way overreacting. My dear? I say that to so many people in a day lol. I also have phone numbers in my phone for probably 50 coworkers.. thst isn't weird. I also delete texts from people that I don't text regularly, I don't need a hundred convos in my texts.

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He deleted the texts and he's saying he "doesn't remember" he's full of shit and you know it

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I think you’re way overreacting. One it’s pretty common to have a coworker’s number for work reasons/friendly chats. Two I see absolutely nothing suspicious in tone and it looks like a bunch of small talk. Three, your best option in to honestly ask him. Four, snooping through someone’s phone is kind of creepy and controlling. You should probably apologize.

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Why are you going through his phone? Clearly there isn't much trust. To me, the my dear means nothing but maybe that's because I call a lot of people dear or sweet heart etc.

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he's lying.... when people delete shit its because their hiding something.. and yeah why is he calling her my dear... idk seems fishyy to me.

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Sounds like you need to start getting your things in order.

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I think he’s deleted the beginning of the conversation to keep it a secret 
That in itself is shady as hell

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1. If u have questions u should be allowed he should not ask u why u went through his phone e he should be asking himself what he did to make u feel as if u had to go through his phone in the first place before he questions u on why u went through it.
2. Not enough info to tell what he doing. For example i call people love,huh, sweetheart all of that but I mean nothing by it my bf knows that I am from the county so it's just a habit. 
3. If he has In The past then that's most likely the case he might be doing things he shouldn't have 
4. If you are that concern you can take her number and call or text her and say "hey, I am ____ wife he said maybe I could help since I am a girl with your issues" or "hey I am ___ wife why are you texting my husband"

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So why don't you ask her? Since he is giving very vague answers.....

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