Mother to my husband and our child?

Chelsey
I feel like my husbands mother sometimes. I swear the man is incapable of lifting a finger around the house... I clean every single day and the next day the house is just as messy. He leaves clothes everywhere, won't put a dish in the dish washer and god forbid I ask him to take out the trash. When we first got together he lived in military quarters which have to be kept clean so I know he knows how. So why in the heck won't he do anything. Grrrrr men
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Su

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You have to talk to him about it. 

Er

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My friends mom went on a strike and did nothing for a week and then things didn't change so she stayed with his mother for a week and when he realized that he was gonna lose her he started helping out and cleaning up more 

Su

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It is bc he had to keep his barracks room clean.   My SO is in the army for 20 years he still likes things to stay clean.  My son on the other was in the marins and he is so messy.  I ask him about it and he said it is bc he was forces to keep things nice and tidy.  Thank goodness he has a GF to keep in him line. Lol 

Su

Suzie • Aug 24, 2014
I m lucky my hubby cleans and cooks I hate to cook bit cleaning doesn't bother me to much since 2 of my boys moved out.

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Chelsey • Aug 24, 2014
Way grrr lpl

Ch

Chelsey • Aug 24, 2014
My hubby has been in the marines for 8 years lol he expects the house to be clean but yet does nothing to k keep it that

Er

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It wouldn't bother me much as long as my so would help out and he does so I don't complain he's such a sweet guy and if I ask him to help me he might drag his feet and say uhhhhhggggg oooookkkkk but he still helps 

Ta

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I was told once that a woman's job is to clean and cook and it's the mans job to pick up dog crap. My so is just as messy. But he does do the dishes and takes out the trash so I can't  complain to much about the laundry and stuff.

Ta

Tasha • Aug 23, 2014
Lol I know. Almost like it may kill them to touch a dirty dish.

Ch

Chelsey • Aug 23, 2014
Including picking up the dog crap lol

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Chelsey • Aug 23, 2014
I don't mind doing the dishes at all but is it really that hard to put your plate in the dishwasher lol I do everything