Was I Abused?

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At 11 this older guy almost 30 years old would buy me stuff in exchange of him f*cking me when ever he wanted or making me give him head. This went on for a couple of years until I was 13. My question is, would that be considered rape or something. I would always cry and get happy after he would give me gifts. But now that I am older I feel like I was a slut.

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Well, yes it was rape. You didn't know better and he was coercing you to do those things and make you feel better by buying you things. :( It makes sense why you feel confused about it.

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Yes, it’s absolutely rape! 
Rape, sexual coercion, sexual exploitation, and pedophilia (as being as he started when you were 11,) among probably a few other things too. 
I’m so, so sorry that you had to go through such despicable trauma. 
I hope that you have managed to seek help, and most importantly safety.

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Yes, rape. He manipulated you.

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Yes this it rape my brother did it to me for many many years starting at age 5 ... I told my parents and they did nothing and let it continue because I’m black and adopted and their son was white so there for he is better than me. I ended up running away at age 17 to make it stop.

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You were young and he used his age and power against you. You weren't responsible for any of it

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You did nothing wrong.  This is a ploy rapists, and in your case pedophiles, use to manipulate people they abuse.  You were a child and a victim.  Please see a therapist that specializes in sexual assault - they can help you heal and manage your feelings from this experience.  I’m so sorry this happened to you.

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100000% percent rape 
He is a pedophile

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Literally the definition of being abused. 
Report it, its never too late. And try to speak to someone about it

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