Should I be mad?-Husband advice on strip clubs

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I am 20 weeks pregnant with our first child. We have been married for almost two years now and my husband is on a work trip right now and is at the strip club. I don’t know how to feel right now. It’s the first time he has been since I started dating him 5 years ago. I think I’m hurt more just because he is going for the first time while I’m pregnant. So do I need to just calm down or do I have a reason to be mad? What do y’all think about your husbands going to strip clubs?

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In my opinion, A strip club is no place for a committed man let alone a husband.

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I don’t care if mine wants to go but he never would.
However your feelings are valid. I think it’s odd that he chose this time to go

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He would come home to none of my stuff being there if it was my man.

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I personally don’t care. My husband and I have gone to strip clubs together and had fun! I’ve gone with my friends; he’s gone with his. The classier ones are just like nice bars with attractive dancers! Do you trust him enough to not be shady is the question?

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Well I’m different I went to strip clubs with my SO and without him🤷🏽‍♀️I didn’t see a big deal. He actually got mad at me for going without him

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I thi k he should have said something before going,in private, so u could have the chance to Express yourself n he could at least assure you that u have nothing to worry about.

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Was it expressed to him that you felt like this? If so and he still went/stayed I would be worried as he isn’t respecting you. But, guys are not like us. They don’t think. If you didn’t express your feelings you can’t expect him to know.

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I find it so strange when men go to strip clubs unless it is a friends birthday or bucks night I do not see why you would end up at a strip club when you are in a committed relationship.

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Me and my bf want to go to a strip club together to see women. It would be for more of a laugh than anything else. It seems odd your husband being there especially while you are pregnant if he's never said about wanting to go there. Best thing to do is talk to him.

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Nahhh. You wanna go to one while you are single then ok, but not while in a relationship or married. Dumb idea and disrespectful. Especially if you are going with other men who are super huge assholes to their wives......

Should I be mad?-Husband advice on strip clubs

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