Am I just freaking out!?

I had sex using the withdrawal method 3 days before I even started ovulating. The thing is he wasn’t even close when he was in me, he would pull out then it would take a long time jacking him off. The second time I made sure his thing was clean before we started again, then we used the withdrawal method once again, same thing I had to jack him off in the end. I missed my period for 2 days already but I’m usually irregular so what’s happening? Am I just freaking out? Or thoughts? Anything I did wrong?