How can I fix the fact that I don’t get turned on during sex?

Question

I love my boyfriend. We’ve been together for 2 years. But I don’t nor have I ever enjoyed sex. He took my virginity last year & although I finally figure out how to relax enough to avoid pain I still don’t feel good during sex. I get really wet & stuff but honestly I enjoy masterbating by myself & watching porn way more. It feels good and I cum. But for some reason my boyfriend just doesn’t turn me on. This includes receiving head and forplay as well.

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Sometimes you just aren’t sexually compatible with someone.

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OMG i feels the same way. I dunno why but i dont enjoy my sex. I always thought i hv sexual problems.

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Make sure you communicate with him about how you’re feeling during sex. Try lube, different positions, foreplay, etc. In my experience, I dated my ex for almost 2 years and never really enjoyed sex. It either hurt or just didn’t feel good. I’ve been dating my current boyfriend for 2 months and the sex is amazing. It’s such a big difference. I think one of the main problems was I was never truly madly in love with my ex and I’m already so in love with my boyfriend. Not saying you should break up because of it but sometimes people just aren’t sexually compatible

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Have you talked to him about it? Try watching porn with him to get things going if that's your thing. If you think you would enjoy something you see tell him to try it, just talk to him.. If you like to be in control down there, that's ok also, there's plenty he can do while you stimulate your clit. 
But you didn't really put much choices in your poll, it kinda seems you made peace with the fact he doesn't turn you on (you can't; find another partner), like you want to break up with him and you just want other's approval of your reason with this poll... If that's how you really feel, you need to do it, regardless of what others say.

How can I fix the fact that I don’t get turned on during sex?

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