Ladies, how do you feel about family being in the birth room and people taking endless pics of your baby etc? We are very private people and I am anxious about how family usually crowd you at the hospital and doesn't give you space when you go back home etc. I want privacy - not an audience. I feel that it's a special time for me and my husband, we must be the first to hold the baby, and have some time with the baby, I dont what 500 daily visitors when we go home. Its a special time for the rest of the family - I accept that, but this would be our first child (rainbow). How do you be forceful with this without offending??