When to go again

Question

Now that I’ve processed what happened for a couple of month, the topic of when to try again has come to my mind. I know I’m physically good to go, but I don’t know how long to wait psychologically. I do still have this deep seated fear that if I do try again, the same (or similar) thing could happen. How long did it take anyone else who felt this way to accept the risk and go forward?

Answer

We found out in mid July, had a d&c mid August and were cleared to try in september. Didnt try but didnt prevent and I practically had a panick attack taking a test that month. The next month I felt significantly more calm and was excited to test. I think you'll always have a fear that something will go wrong but theres a difference between being nervous and flat out scared. Wait until you feel ready I definitely noticed a difference. Just tell yourself you need to test and see how you react. If you panic, you arent ready yet which is ok.

Answer

I had to wait thirty days from dandc last July 31. We didn’t start trying though until October and I was pregnant again in January. Baby boy due in October. It does not get easier expecting again. I was really upset until the 9 week NIPT tests came ok then I could relax. But I won’t ever get over the twins I lost.

When to go again

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