Orgasm help?

Question

Okay so I'm a little embarrassed (even though there's nothing to be ashamed about). I've started masurbating at the beginning of this year, and I can't seem to orgasm (via clit).  I get pretty close, and then it's like my body just gives up before I'm ready? Like I know the key here is to just not stop, but it's like my body gets excited or something and then just, stops. It's weird, and I'm not sure how to help myself out.

Answer

Don’t be embarrassed - this is your body! You should love every aspect of it :) As for your masturbation, don’t stress about it. Worrying about it will just make you anxious and stressed out.
If I had to give advice, it would be try different methods of masturbation. Maybe try using a dildo, anal plug, vibrator, even masturbating by let warm water from the shower head run over your lady parts. 
If you can’t masturbate with your hands, don’t stress about it. For some people, reaching their orgasm might actually hurt, which might make them stop. 
Personally, it can take me a while to masturbate, depending on my mood. Sometimes it can take me 5 minutes or even an hour. My longest time was 3 hours :) It took ages to get into the mood, but I didn’t give up, and it was rewarding in the end. 
I’d suggest exploring different ways to masturbate. You could become more vocal with your moans, watch yourself masturbate in the mirror etc. As for not being able to orgasm...maybe there’s a mental barrier preventing from coming. Or maybe it’s because of the pain if you’re not used to coming (?) When masturbating, clear your mind and just focus purely on the feeling. That intense, amazing feelings can consume you, and it can feel like the best thing ever. 
I hope this was helpful, and good luck ^^

Answer

Try to keep going longer it may help

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