My soon to be husband is accusing me of cheating on him

Me and my soon to be ex husband we are now separated. Still technically married but separated. Just waiting for the paper work to go through and everything. We honestly haven’t talked since maybe round my birthday when he was giving me my vape, and when I went to say goodbye to my in laws. Since things happen I have been keeping busy. Focusing on school, getting a better job, you know just worrying about me.

But as time is going by he being really harsh, and negative. Like he will send like rude text, or say stuff on my Snapchat.

The other day I joined bumble, not to get any action, but to make friends. When I was with my soon to be ex husband, he barley would let me go out with my friends. (Keep in mind a good amount of my friends are guys, but in the group they see me as the little sister. None of em are into me. Plus they knew I was married. Anyways I just got on there to make friends, because since I moved back with my family, they moved to a new are and I don’t know anyone there. Apparently my ex found out I was on tumble, and called me at like 2 in the morning saying how dare I just try jumping into a new relationship. That I’m a whore and yadda yadda. I ignored that cuz you know it not any of his business what I do.

Than about a week later after that, one of my cousins invited out to like a speed dating thing, mostly for her. I go with her, yes I was talking to a guy, he seemed cool, but guy kinda left me on read. So I gotta annoyed and I posted sometime about how being left on read is annoying and shit. He commented on my Snapchat saying oh as a friend and your ex I still love you. Please baby come back.

I told him no I couldn’t because after him calling me a bitch, borderline raping me, making me feel less of woman cuz I didn’t wanna have sex with him, I told him I don’t want nothing to do with him. He didn’t like the answer and said how im a Bitch yet again. 😒 ok cool. Be upset cuz I refuse to hurt me again.

Most recently now. Like round end of April.

I got in contact with I guess a childhood friend/childhood sweetheart. This guy been a part of my life for 19 years. (My childhood friend) me and him been talking for about a month and so. We reconnected, but he knows I’m going through my divorce, he just been supportive, and well yeah me and my childhood friend talked about dating, but we both know, we know it not a good time, but we still kinda are. Like we call each bae, and talk every day. He makes sure I’m ok when I have bad days. I guess we just waiting till least the paper works come in or until I get the one paper work that states I’m separated before we make a huge commitment.

Now my friend is coming to visit in about 2 and half week, and even though we are kinda dating, I’m still doing like cute projects for him. Cuz he been my support system since we got back in touch. I wanna do something nice for my friend, just show how grateful I am that he back in my life, and how he has been a great support system for the past few weeks.

Than my ex found out, about how I’m talking to my friend. Again he just being this toxic person, he found out through a mutual friend when me and her were out, she was helping get supplies for his present. While we were working on it, he calls me. I didn’t pick up, but he left me a voicemail. Quick summary, he said I never loved him, I was just using him, that he hopes my friend hurts me etc.

so that’s what going on in my life.