Just messing around?

I’ve been hooking up with this guy at work for the past few weeks. The first time I whole heartedly believed it was just a one night stand and that was it. Then he asked me to work with him so I could hang out with him. He took me out for dinner and drinks and a few days later we went bar hopping. Both times we hooked up as well. I was thinking that maybe it is just a friends with benefits type thing. But he’s been wanting to go out on dates like go to the movies or go mini golfing. We planned it out and we’re going to later this week and he’s planning on spending the night. He even said he’ll cuddle me. The last time we went out he told me I was special to him, but obviously after a few drinks. But the truth comes out when you’re drunk. I feel like friends with benefits would be less going on dates and more sleeping around. Idk. What could this be???