TTC, feeling discouraged and worried 🤞🏾😔

I was on tri previfem (birth control) for about 5 years, I finished my last pack in September of 2018, me and my spouse have been trying since November of 2018, I have always had normal cycles before during and after my birth control. My cycle did not come on for the month of March 2019 ( of course I thought I was prego 😥 because I have NEVER missed a period EVER!) but realized I wasn’t once my cycle came on Very heavy April 15th 2019 and the following month of May and June were normal starting around the 10th of both months (lasting normal 3-4 days) it always has. I was for sure ovulating on the 22th of this month because I tested and got a heavy dark surge line on that day. Just wondering if anybody could give me advice on when I need to test or maybe expect symptoms. I have been so discouraged seeing that everyone around me has become prego especially those not even wanting to be so any inspiration or info anybody could provide would appreciated! Thanks.