Would you let and be ok with your mom being a sergeant mother for you?

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If you found out you could never carry a child of your own and your mother offered to have one for you would you do it?
Also what if your eggs are no good so you planned on having your husbands sperm plannted into your moms eggs?

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I chose no because my mother is in very poor health and another pregnancy would literally kill her. But if she was completely healthy then YES!

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A few things would be a cause for concern:
-Your baby would basically be your sibling
- unless mother was a teen mom and daughter that is unable to become pregnant wants to be a teen mom I think the eggs from mother would not be the safest or healthiest choice. I believe the best age for donor eggs in between 20-25 years old.

I have read of healthy mother being a surrogate for child. If older mother is in good health and can handle the task physically, I think that is a beautiful thing to do for your child.

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I definitely wouldn't use my mothers eggs. I would much prefer a donor egg if it came down to that. 
As for a surrogate- I would use a family member if they were in good health for sure.

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I think she'd do it if I wanted, but pregnancy is dangerous and my mum is older and has a heart condition. I'd be way too scared something would happen to her!

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I would absolutely let my mom carry. My sister has offered and if we get to a point where I know I can't carry, I will totally take her up on that. The egg thing would weird me out though. I would use a sibling's egg or a donors before I would use my mom's. I wouldn't want my baby to be my sibling.

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My sister has offered for me when she is a bit older. My mother on the other hand has serious back problems and has to get MRI's and go to specialists constantly due to carrying 5 very large children. So shes out of the question lol

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Eggs no because then they would biologically be half siblings. And surrogacy would be ok if my mum was still with us. No one in my family is able to be a surrogant for us anyway so won't be going down that road.

Would you let and be ok with your mom being a sergeant mother for you?

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