Want more kids??

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My bf opened up to be about not being sure if he wants to have kids. I’m already a mom of 1 boy. He’s about to be 9. He’s ok with that and will actually be meeting him soon. 
I’m ok with just my son but a part deep inside of me wants to try for a baby in the future. 
Should I bring it up? Or just let time decide what happens? 
I love this man! He’s been there for me like no one else has.

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I would have a talk with him before he meets your boy. No point in having them meet if kids in the future is a deal breaker.

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Absolutely be upfront with what you want.  It's not just you, but him that should be fully informed before deciding to move forward.

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If you think you might want more later on, I would be open about it the same way he is.

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Definitely talk about it.

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Honestly I’d leave before I get way too invested thinking he will change his mind. Talk to him but if it’s a strong NO, then that’s a deal breaker..

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He’s okay with that or he would want to be a stepdad in the future? Big difference. Depends on what you expect of him I guess though. Sounds like you should have the convo.

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I agree, wait until he meets your son and how he interacts with him. That can be a big deal break if he doesn’t even try with your son even though he doesn’t want any of his own.

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I would honestly just wait and see what happens. You said that he doesn’t know if he wants kids not that he’s for sure that he’s always gonna be 100% against it. I honestly don’t even think it’s a necessary conversation right now.

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If he still hasn’t met your child why are you so confident about having kids with him. Maybe wait and see how he treats your son before you make such a huge decision.

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