How would you feel if your SO did this?

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My husband gave me one of his phone to use and keep. His cousin texted him and ask if he's busy this July 4th. I gave it to him and he was texting his cousin back. He was telling me to get away from him, he was being in another room with closed doors. I checked to see if their text messages were still there, but he deleted it. Now with this cousin, they both are always talking about women, sex, and drugs, even with my husband having wife and kids. I just feel uneasy about it.

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yea that wouldn't fly in my marriage, we dont do secrets. if you are hiding things or deleting things, you're most likely up to no good

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Ha. No way

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First of all of my boyfriend told me to get away I would laugh in his face and follow just to piss him off that wouldn't fly you got something to hide

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Huge red flag

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You seem pretty calm about this. Do you like being disrespected like that? That asshole would have been yelled at and I would have talked to his cousin about what the hell was being said. Then he probably would have been dropped on his ass and kicked out the god damn door.

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But why wasn't the phone switched to your number and account? Like, how do you use a phone that still has someone else's stuff on it? I'm so confused?! Also, who knows what he was doing, but if you don't like it, talk to him about it.

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Tell him you will not except secret it's either her be honest or hes gone he probably think you'll let it slide if you calm about it let him know your serious a big red flag is him going in the other room and deleting the messages after.

How would you feel if your SO did this?

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