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I also have this nagging thought that if I watch porn to masturbate then God won’t bless me with a baby. But it’s something I need to get off. With my medication I struggle to have an orgasm. I pretty much can’t while on my husband, sadly. So I have to have anal penetration, vaginal penetration, clitoral stimulation, and a visual and sound stimulation. 
I just feel that he will punish me for doing this....

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Trust me if that were the case a lot less people would have babies

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Their is absolutely nothing wrong with watching porn. I don't know your religion but it is a normal thing to watch. Not a big deal at all girl.

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It is not about God punishing you it is about why should God give you everything you want while someone is disobeying him. He is already providing you with food, home, money, family, and love which are all the necessities. Just like on Earth nothing is free, we have to put work in thats similar to our relationship with God. We can't expect to get everything without putting effort in. Maybe use vibrator during sex therefore it is not masturbating as you are not alone doing it.

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If god is going to punish people for having an orgasm to porn then it’ll be damned!! 
You do you Hun! You’ll get your baby even if you watch porn 🥰

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If that was the case then there would be a lot less people on this planet . And all the sperm they get from guys at the sperm bank wouldnt work because all those guys are watching / looking at some form on porn so they can well cum .

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These two things are two separate situations. However if you are feeling some type of guilt you are probably being convicted about something and your should pay attention to it specially if you are a believer . 
As for porn, porn is wrong. Where do we see porn in the Bible ? Do we really no why God created sex for ?? 
We have this idea of pleasure . Pleasure this and pleasure that and it’s wrong and I am not saying you shouldn’t have no satisfaction out of it but when we are in obedience we get a pleasure and satisfaction of having sex in other words making love to someone. I must be honest that is why porn is sin for someone who is married and watches porn eventually they begin to compare their partner to who they are watching in that screen or the expectation physically speaking begin to changed and God has not intended for that to happen . 
We have to be very careful. Porn can really ruined our mines for us women and males as well.
But just so you know I don’t think God will punish you either by not having a child I do know though that when you are unsure of something is for a REASON. 
Do some soul searching ... & you will find the answer you are looking for !

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If that were the case, my daughter wouldn’t be here.

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I am personally against porn. I won't get into all my reasonings because that's not what this is about. My question is this- if watching porn makes you feel guilty, then should you watch it? Would you feel better if you stopped watching it? I don't think that watching porn and having a baby have anything to do with each other. I don't believe that's how God works, either. Also God created the sexual response as a beautiful thing.

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Don't know if this will help or not, but I was told a while back that we are not supposed to think of God as punishing us; rather, he is trying to teach us something. Not sure if it really applies to your question, but thought it might be worth mentioning. 
Also, I've read that porn can desensitize you over time/give you unrealistic expectations that can contribute to making orgasm more difficult (not saying this is 100% true, just a possibility). I'm no expert, and you did say your medication causes the problem, just another thing I thought worth mentioning in case its true and does more harm than good in the long run. 🤷

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We’re conditioned in our society, from such a young age, to believe that sex, porn, etc. is so wrong.  This causes internalized guilt and shame.  Give yourself a permission slip and be free.  You will not be punished for being human.

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