First time at marriage counseling was last night. 2 1/2 hours of what was very eye opening talk. Unfortunately, my husband kept the talk similar to the talks we have between us at home. He did bring up he’s not happy and he’s coming to Therapy to see whether things can be worked out between us, but he’s still going to see this girl he is talking to. He can’t have his cake and eat it too, obviously, but when we get home the story changes and he says he doesn’t think it will work. Ok, so then why are you still here with me? Because he loves me and is here for me? To me that’s not a valid answer. Anyone else have marriage counseling and how many sessions should I put myself through if my husband already feels like this? I have another session next week, and they want to see him alone as well. So confused, but willing to work at things to make this marriage work.