Help !!

How do y’all wipe down there 😭😭😭 my sore is on the opening of my vagina and one near the pee hole .. the other one is swollen hurts like hell.. my dr gave me some “numbing gel” which don’t even work ! And pills to start me off with 😢😢😢 I’m also experiencing ALOT of white creamy discharge can’t even clean it out bc it hurts so bad 😩 it’s annoying wet feeling