Hello ladies, I'm currently 21 and SO is 27. The other night He admitted to me that he didn't want kids. This broke my heart a little bit b/c I really wanted my rainbow baby but I didn't freak out, I stayed calm and listened to his reasoning. He makes some valid points, in all honestly. I know he didn't mean to hurt my feelings at all b/c he doesn't know about the two storms I've had in my life yet. It's hard for me to talk about and we're still a little "fresh" if you will, so I haven't brought that up yet. He knows my ex was highly abusive towards me but he doesn't know what happened as a result. Is now the time to bring up something like that or should I wait? Should I set aside a time for us to talk about it or should I just bring it up in conversation and see where he takes it? I'm really into this guy but the fact that he's not at least open to the idea of kids hurts my heart a little bit.