Genital herpes?

I’ve gotten what seems to be a cut on the skin right below my vaginal opening. this has happened in the past with an ex boyfriend after I wasn’t turned on by him anymore so I wasn’t wet enough. its been 9 months since that and it’s happened 2 times after having sex with a new person. I think i’m not wet enough. this is a localized thing and only one cut. I had one last week that went away in 2 days with coconut oil but I just got it again yesterday. please help. I plan on going to my gyno tomorrow for blood tests and a swab.