I would say no. My sister asked me to be her surrogate after she had 2 kids and had a hysterectomy. I hadn't even had my own child yet. I told her no. I'm not giving up my opportunity to have a child to help someone who already had two. Call me selfish if you will.

I personally would have to say no. Because I think there would be a conflict of interest there. I think if it were me I would feel much too attached to the child since it would basically be mine despite the fact that I didn't grow it, birth it, etc. but if you can detach yourself from those emotions, it would be a beautiful and completely selfless thing to do. Every person will look at it differently. Good luck in your decision 😊

Thats a hard decision.. First off do you have any kids of your own?? Second can you see yourself being ok with a situation like that?? That would basically be your baby.. I think it's a wonderful thing to do.. BUT it has some possible emotional attachments that come with doing it.

I wouldn't. It would just be difficult to separate the fact that that's my mom, and my egg, who she will be raising. Also a little weird (power dynamic I mean) for her to ask that of you. Not necessarily with your mom, but I could see her pushing boundaries - sort of damned if you do and damned if you don't.

I probably wouldn't. I know my mother can't have more kids though. I feel like it would cause problems. Too much drama and mixed emotions for me to handle.

You need to do what's best for you. A lot of women get eggs from family members so it's not unnatural (including mother/daughter). If you're not sure then my guess would be no as you want to be 100% as donating your eggs is not an easy process, it is very hard on the body. If you do decide to go forward you might consider freezing the other eggs for yourself. I had to use an egg donor at myself to get currently pregnant and sure wish I would have frozen my eggs when I was younger.

Depending on her age, isn't it dangerous to carry the baby too?