When my husband bought his current home it was only to live in for a year, do a renovation, and then find something else. I say my husband's house because 1. I am not on the mortgage. 2. I own a home as well. Because of work and location I stay 4 days a week with the kids at his house and 3 days a week at mine. Not ideal for everyone, but we like it.

We are now on year two of living in my husband's house. There is still maybe two weeks of work to do to get it ready to sell. We now need to because baby number 4 is in the way and it's only 3 bed 2 bath and not enough room when we are all here. Plus, I want to move one of my offices into the house so that I don't need to go into work as often and I can have staff over to work when I am here.

He is still refusing to leave. He likes the neighborhood, the neighbors and thinks with all his hard work on the house he should enjoy it. But I know kids and it's just a matter of time before there is a scratch in something and he flips.

He had an argument about it all last week and he basically told me that the reason he hadn't done anything is because I hadn't started packing up extra clutter to have some room for him do do anything. (Inside all he needs to do is frame a window and put up to holders). So I pack up 100 rubber maid bins of stuff and he takes it to storage. But now he has taken all this extra weekend work out of town and doesn't want to do the house as promised.

I just don't know what to do with him and wondering if I should just buy a second house and leave him in his?