My baby will be 9 weeks old on Friday. I also have a 2.5 year old.

Me and the husband haven't had sex since I was about 34 weeks pregnant. The main reason for this is because I just dont feel sexy. I've noticed a big difference down below with my 2nd which is weird because my first was forceps! I feel one side is bigger than the other side (looks puffy.) Is this normal? Also because I'm not in the mood I'm so dry too. Also me and husband just keep arguing because 2nd baby is constantly miserable!

Anyone else having similar issues?