My fiance can get really mean sometimes. And im just not sure how much more I can handle it. Heres the situation..our precious daughter is 8 weeks old. I work full time monday through friday 730 am to 4. He works part time evenings. He doesnt go to bed until 5 am..6 am..well i leave at 650 am. Daughter is awake anytime from 630 to 9 am. I got up at 5 am to feed her and i out her back down. She got up about 6...just grunting and stuff. So he wakes me up flipping about how he cant get sleep and how he I expect him to go to her doctors appt and watch her. I dont expect him to do anything...Ive always communicated with him on this subject. My mom could easily watch her if he wanted to sleep more. He could tell me if he didnt want to go to her appts. Starts screaming at me about how im a "know it all mom".im a FTM...i dont act like i know everything. But i RESEARCH EVERYTHING and i do my best to be confident in the decisions or knowledge I make for my daughter. But im "know it all mom" for it. Screaming at me about how im a stupid woman..and how he has had to accomodate his schedule so I can work. I would gladly stay at home and watch her if he would work full time. Its so painful because I made it sooo clear before I had her that I did not want to fight in front of her. Because thats all my parents did in front of me. Its so uosetting because he talks so much shit about woman and moms and now we have a daughter to raise to be strong and confident. How is she supposed to be strong and confident when her father calls her hard working mother and damn good mother at that every damn name in book. Im scared she is gonna grow up thinking its okay for a man to talk to a woman that way(its OBVIOUSLY not) or grow up serious confidence issues due to him talking so much shit about woman and moms. He threatened me all morning that he would make me a single mother.:((( ALL I WANTED WAS PERFECT FAMILY. :,(