Why is it you think a lot of white men shame white women who have been intimate with black men?

They're racist and or insecure 🤷🏽‍♀️

I think it’s insecurities. The notion that black men have bigger penises I think makes some white men super insecure.

It’s just racism and being given a feeling of inadequacy (in the pants). It’s been my experience that white males’ pride is hurt so easily.

Racism.I have noticed some have a bit of a fetish though. At least in my experience more guys have a cockholding fetish than they are racist. I’ll never forget the day my bitch ass grandpa had the nerve to tell me “guys know when u date black guys” I was so “disrespectful” that day. I told his dumb ass “ and women know when ur nasty ass hasn’t showered. Don’t let that cologne fool u dirty piece of shit”

Penis envy.🤷‍♀️

I've never had that experience. I've mainly dated outside my ethnicity and when I have been with a white guy he's never shamed me for the race of my previous partners. My current partner is white even and he couldnt give a care. He just cares about how I was treated in each relationship. I chalk whatever guys you seem to be running into as ignorant, insecure, and possibly a bit racist. Theres definitely something stemming outta there.

Because those men around you in particular are racist. Simple.

Because they think these girls have a weird fetish for black men and they think it’s weird. I’ve talked to some guys about it before and that seems to be a general response. Basically they’re going off a stereotype and not thinking for themselves. What’s new

I'm assuming it's based on insecurity. By tearing black men down it makes them feel/look better. Personally, I wouldn't date someone like that because that shit is immature. Other than that maybe they're just a racist?

Im mixed and ive seen this on both sides of races...My Dad is African American and was and is given a hard time for marrying a white women as well...