Why is it you think a lot of white men shame white women who have been intimate with black men?

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I’m a Caucasian woman and have dated a black man before. I’ve come to notice that a lot of the men I dated after this man shamed me for being intimate with a black person... why is that? I’ve chalked it up to ignorance and insecurity, but I’m curious if this is common among other white women, or other races, what was your experience?

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Su

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They're racist and or insecure 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Bre • Jul 11, 2019
Plain and simple

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👑G • Jul 11, 2019
Exactly my thoughts

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I think it’s insecurities. The notion that black men have bigger penises I think makes some white men super insecure.

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Wegucci🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ • Jul 11, 2019
And of course, some racism involved

Lu

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It’s just racism and being given a feeling of inadequacy (in the pants). It’s been my experience that white males’ pride is hurt so easily.

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an • Jul 11, 2019
Agreed

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Racism.I have noticed some have a bit of a fetish though. At least in my experience more guys have a cockholding fetish than they are racist. I’ll never forget the day my bitch ass grandpa had the nerve to tell me “guys know when u date black guys” I was so “disrespectful” that day. I told his dumb ass “ and women know when ur nasty ass hasn’t showered. Don’t let that cologne fool u dirty piece of shit”

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✋🏼😈 ℕ𝓞т𝐭๏∂คч S卂ţᗩή😈👊🏼 • Jul 11, 2019
I don’t respect his ass AT ALL. I’ve said worse. But the things he did while he was alive he deserved every ounce of disrespect.

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Susie.Carmichael • Jul 11, 2019
Smdh that's so fucked up of him.

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Jaded • Jul 11, 2019
you actually said that to your grandfather?

Qu

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Penis envy.🤷‍♀️

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I've never had that experience. I've mainly dated outside my ethnicity and when I have been with a white guy he's never shamed me for the race of my previous partners. My current partner is white even and he couldnt give a care. He just cares about how I was treated in each relationship. I chalk whatever guys you seem to be running into as ignorant, insecure, and possibly a bit racist. Theres definitely something stemming outta there.

Mr

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Because those men around you in particular are racist. Simple.

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Because they think these girls have a weird fetish for black men and they think it’s weird. I’ve talked to some guys about it before and that seems to be a general response. Basically they’re going off a stereotype and not thinking for themselves. What’s new

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I'm assuming it's based on insecurity. By tearing black men down it makes them feel/look better. Personally, I wouldn't date someone like that because that shit is immature. Other than that maybe they're just a racist?

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Im mixed and ive seen this on both sides of races...My Dad is African American and was and is given a hard time for marrying a white women as well...