Air Force as a mother

I am married and I currently have a two month old, and I had highly considered joining the Air Force before I became pregnant. Now I am looking at trying to enlist in about 2 years time or so. Enough to get with my personal trainer and get back in shape, make sure everything is settled with my husband/family, etc.

I’m not looking for bashing or shaming. Only advice, of the helpful nature.

Such as, how does training after BMT go? Is family allowed to go with you wherever it is located?

Does your husband/significant other work? Or stay home with the kid(s)?

Best careers with least likely deployment?

Past experiences with being a military mom?