We are both 23 we been dating almost four months made it official almost two months ago and we have been out quite a few times alone or with friends. He’s met my mom and sister and I haven’t met his yet :(. We kissed the first time on 4 date and from then he started hugging and holding hands. Slowly he started being more touchy like grabbing my breasts and bum and my 😺 over clothes. Then he came over for a movie and we both kinda gave eachother a handjob no sex. I told him it was a good feeling and I’m ready to take things further if he’s ready too and he replied woth of course. Then he slept over at my sisters house woth me and again we kinda played with eachother but no sex. We slept for like 3 hours as he had to wake up for work and before getting out of bed he was touching me up again and I pulled out a condom in case and told him I want it,and he was like what time is it and blah blah and then he said well if you ask nicely so I asked nicely but he kept just fingering me and then he stopped as he said he feels a bit too tired for sex. I felt sad and he acknowledged it and I apologized for if I pressured him and made things awk and he said not at all and that he was just tired. I’ve noticed that even before that incident sometimes when we are together he won’t feel me up or kiss for a long time but he does love hugging me for a long time tightly. And I went out again woth him he invited me to meet another one of his friends I could see he was trying to impress me and show me off to his friends and at some point was holding my hand and hugging me in front of him, and he had told me he told his friemd about me but don’t know exactly what he’s told him. Then when he took me home he was hugging me and kissed me for a bit and again not much French kissing but long lasting kiss though. He hugged me again for a long time and saw I was sad ti walk away from him when he was sending me inside and he hugged me a bit more but deep down I felt like maybe he doesn’t feel as ready as I do about sex and maybe he’s building up the love first I’m not sure he is my first boyfriend so I’m not sure how it works. So this morning I sent him a text along the line saying that I’m ready to have sec woth him and if he’s be into that as well and now I’m waiting for him to wake up and reply to me I’m so stressed I really like him to the point I’m loving him and I want him so badly. Do you guys think it’s a red flag ? That we haven’t had sex yet ? Is he being a good man that’s taking the relationship seriously? Do guys that are serious about you do this ? Is he slowly gonna leave me ? Or is it that all guys slow down as the relationship progresses?