So stressed

I’m worried we don’t have enough money for this baby. We are living in a caravan... we actually just bought an old barn but it needs renovating and we can’t live in it yet. We were trying for 9 months and I guess we started thinking we had more time. When we started trying we were living in an apartment, but we bought this barn thinking of a future family home. We don’t even have running water yet we buy bottles in bulk and we won’t have the barn ready by the time I’m due. The comments have already started flying at me (why do people always assume it’s 100% the woman’s fault?? No one has said a word to my husband) and even people saying we will be reported. As if i wasn’t stressed enough. This baby is wanted and loved. We can give it everything if people can just back off and let us work it out. Eventually we’ll have a huge barn to live in with all the mod cons, but right now we don’t. I’m scared and hormonal.