I'm 21 and in college. When I come home, I live with my parents. Unbeknownst to them, when im down for it, I'm pretty sexually active. (There's a whole lot of backstory and context behind me and my parents relationship that I won't get into now)

I started a new job over the summer and I realized there was this one guy who was constantly staring at me. He would pass by me and he would just stare, I mean like a fight me or fuck me stare. I was low-key intimidated because not only was his stare intense, homeboy was hot.

Anyways, after a good month or so of us staring at each other from a distance, he gave me his number. We texted for a bit, then texting turned into flirting, then flirting became let's hook up. Turns out he is Jamaican (like me🇯🇲) and we get along well. At work, we keep it cool, we don't see each other much at work so that factors in.

I really do wanna hook up with him while I'm home, but I know it would require some SERIOUS gymnastics and swerving for my parents not to find out. They are very religious in the very conservative sense. I'm more liberal in my religious beliefs. I know if they ever found out I was having sex before I got married, it would be my head. I already acknowledge that it would t be happening at my house, but I would have to come up with a really good explanation as to why im constantly going out of the house.

I hate lying in general, but I also hate having to change a lot of what I do and who I am just to please my parents. They haven't quite accepted that im 21 yet. I dont want to disappoint them but I also want to be able to live my life as I choose.

Any advice?