Recently it seems my BF and I can’t get along. There’s always a problem when it comes to me voicing how I feel. The other day he was very disrespectful and I spoke up and it resulted in a big argument and me and our daughter spending the whole day in the bedroom away from him. Then it took my pretty much forcing him to apologize to be back on good terms.

I’m a SAHM at the time because it’s summer break and he has two other daughter that need supervision so it makes more sense for me to stay home then paying for 1 child’s childcare while there are two more at home.

Well since I stay home he expects me to do EVERYTHING when it comes to taking for of the house. Never get any kind of help from him (or the 15 y/o step daughter).

Last night the plates were dirty from lunchtime and I hadn’t had the chance to wash them. Therefore he started going on and on about how he had to put the middle daughters chips in a storage bowl because the dishes are all dirty (which they weren’t).

I tell him that I’m not the only one capable of taking care of this kind of stuff therefore why does it seem that it’s always on me to constantly make sure it’s all done. He goes on to tell me “oh so I have to pay for everything AND do stuff around here, okay I’ll just start doing it myself”

Just like the other day HE TOTALLY WASNT GETTING THE POINT!!

I really don’t know what to do anymore. It’s like I’m his live-in baby sitter/ maid and I don’t appreciate it

Quite frankly if I wanted to be either of those I could go do it for someone’s family and get paid.

I understand being a house wife comes with responsibility but pretty much being told you’re the maid because you don’t work isn’t a qualification.