If a man that you are with and LIVE with..never craves your affection..does that mean he doesn't love you? I long and day dream about curling up with him and being held at night but he never does. He either falls asleep on the couch or comes to bed only to turn over and fall asleep in 2 seconds. Im not talking about sex. Im talking about that comfort.you know ladies. He is romantic during sex OCCASIONALLY ..and we do lay together from time to time. But it doesnt feel like he desires my touch.